The Smarandache C¢mplex (with the accent on the first syllable):
is a collection of fears stemming from previous unsuccessful experience
or from unconscious feelings that, wanting to do something <S>, the result
would be <Anti-S>, which give rise to feelings, attitudes, and ideas pushing
the subject towards a deviation of action <S> eventually towards an <Anti-S>
action.  (From the positive and negative brain's electrical activities.)
     For example:  A shy boy, attempting to invite a girl to dance, inhabits
himself of fear she would turn him down...

     How to manage this phobia?  To dote and anti-dote!
By transforming it into an opposite one, thinking differently, and being fear
in our mind that we would pass our expectancies but we shouldn't.

    Psychodrama could be a treatment way.